Saturday, November 7, 2009

The grim period

I recently decided to start a diet to lose some weight. This comes upon a decision that I have been contemplating for sometime. I do strongly believe that women are so disgusted by men who are not in shape that they will tell you anything to reject you if you decide to approach them.
Stereotypes? Yes my friends, it's all about stereotypes and we can't deny it anymore. It will be lying to ourself sating that women do not put look and beauty at the very first spot when judging a man to be their mate. We cannot do it any longer because times changed and today we live by aesthetics only, or for the most.

Sense of humor, intelligence, culture are a thing of the past for women, what they want now is a figure that the media portray for them in a tailored fashion for their needs. Who to blame exactly?
Ignorance first because it allows people to become so fucking brainwashed by anything that sounds or looks cool. Second are the fashion and tabloid magazines that for many decades have poisoned the women's thought just answering a questionnaire titled "How good are you in bed?". Also how quickly fashion designers convinced women that seduction is going out dressed half naked or dressed like prostitutes.
Third achievement is TV fiction that created pre-packaged emotions/behaviors to be fitted by those watching from home. I always thought if Desperate Housewives or MTV's teenage shows had an impact on the female population, and they did, with dismay and delusion the answer is positive.
Emancipation? A thing of the past that another generation fought for nothing or for few rights that are now being not entirely protected. Why? Because women won a battle believing it was the war. The illusion of having triumphed over man's tyranny forever was just an illusion and the latest generation of women does not want to fight because still believes that the past victories are still echoing in this century, but they aren't.